Four Phrases To Shut Down Unsolicited Advice
We’ve all been there: You’re wrestling with a tough decision, when someone swoops in with “helpful” advice you never asked for. The next time that happens to you, here are four ways to respond . . .
- “Thanks for sharing. I’ll consider it.”
It politely acknowledges their input without locking yourself in.
- “That’s a useful view. I prefer to handle it this way.”
This shows you’re listening to their perspective while keeping the choice of how to act in your hands.
- “I appreciate your input. I already have a plan for how I’ll move forward.”
This respectfully signals that you’ve got things under control.
- “I hear you. If I need more guidance, I’ll reach out.”
This validates their effort but also prevents further unsolicited input unless you seek it out.
Personally I have a FIFTH phrase that like to use, about 97.9 percent of the time, and it’s just ONE WORD . . . NUNYA . . . as in NUNYA BUSINESS!!!
